Saturday, August 6, 2016

whose fault is this??

I am writing this as if it happened with us, as it makes easy for me to write.

During my graduation, my family is regularly visited by a person (not taking name) who was studying 10+2.  He was first introduced to my family by an accident. It was one of afternoons during hot summer, he asked for food as he was hungry. Mom thought he might be a beggar and since nothing is available with him to carry food, she gave the food in a plate which we generally keep it separate for beggars. After he blessed our family in sanskrit and left. Mom just surprised how come a beggar could speak such a good sanskrit and recite slokas.

Later we came to know the actual story. He is studying 10+2. His parents are teachers and from a brahinical community. He went on to say that his parents abuse him verbally by saying you are mentally ill and you need to grow up. He received same treatment form his school mates and colony people. So, whenever he was upset with his family he used to come to our home for food and spend some time chitchatting. During his chit chat we realized he has very good knowledge of bhagawadgita and few other hindu texts. we also wondered how much knowledge he posses at such age of 17.

unfortunately, he used face very ill treatment by fellow citizens of our town. Few times he used to come to our home with torn clothes and small bruises. We asked him several times to give the names of those persons who is abusing him so that it could be investigated by the police which he denied.

Suddenly, he stopped visiting our place. Upon inquiry we came to know that he committed suicide on railway track.

So, whose fault is this??
1. Parents
2. fellow citizens of the town
3. my family
4. GOD

Is it because parents were expecting more from their child even though their child is not capable of achieving what is required of him. There are somethings which cannot undone by the present medical knowledge.

Is it because fellow citizens were enjoying harassing the child.

Is it because my family helped him only with food but not with knowledge required to sustain his life.

Is it the fault of the GOD.

or Could we say nothing wrong happened here.

If I believe in GOD then I would definitely say it is the fault of the GOD who has given this kid a life but did not give enough knowledge to cope up the pressure in this world. But I could also say that he was taken by GOD as GOD felt that this kid suffered a lot and no need to stay in this world for long. Every person has a breaking point.

Parents too has breaking point. They never want to abuse their child. However, due to their limitations in knowledge & patience, their breaking point will be reached and Love takes the back seat.

Fellow citizens, the persons who was harassing the child are the rejected components of the human manufacturing plant owned by creator (if believed in GOD).

If I do not believe in GOD then no one could be blamed as it is nature that only the fittest will survive in this world. The term "morality" could only be attributed to the human beings if humans believe in GOD.